I can't believe I fell for it!

[lexi]

Hi John,

I am sorry you don't believe me as you are probably jaded from reading so many messages like this one. It is absolutely true and I really had fell for it. That is until I came across this website and more importantly all the posts written about these men.

Now I am upset at myself for falling for it. I go back and forth between wanting to go right back and then not wanting to go again. I wish I could care less but I don't.

If you hate reading these posts...why are you? Move on to something else.

To everyone else - thanks for your writing about your experiences as it does make a difference. Thanks!

[shadInToronto]

Originally Posted by lexi

...To everyone else - thanks for your writing about your experiences as it does make a difference. Thanks!

Blah, blah, blah ...... Next, please.

[blitz]

I just wanted to make a comment in regards to your original post, where you mentioned that Mario did not want you to ride in the car with some of the entertainers.

You must understand that most of the resort staff do not get the kind of action that the animators do, so there is definitely some rivalry between the two. Of course he wouldn't want you getting in a car with a bunch of smooth operators, they get plenty as it is!

Also, it's a lot easier to feel the fuzzies when there are no outside influences affecting your relationship. Like, when you're down there, the last thing on your mind are bills and general day-to-day concerns. Then when you are only communicating via telephone, everything seems so simple. Please keep this in mind, this isn't a REAL relationship as it stands, and the odds are stacked highly against you that he is infact a sankie playing the slow game.

Do you really want a man who tells you he loves you the first time he meets you? I mean, saying it is one thing, but meaning it is another. Empty words carry no value. Who else has he said that to?

I think you need to get real with yourself and come to terms with the situation.

Take care

[crazy moon]

Ur not a stupid girl u only live once canadian men are no better at times go for it others have and my brother has been married 13 years to a dominican and 2 years for myself everyone is crazy on this forum anyways

[jenfau]

It sounds moe like you are going to give up on a feeling .No one here should have that power to make you change your mind .Helpful suggestions are worth looking here for but some of the advice is just plain stupid.Go back down as soon as you can to get your answers positive or not.Take some of the useful advice and keep your eyes open and your heart semi closed but don't be closed minded .I seen the good side and the bad side and believe me it wasn't easy but I followed my heart but was cautious .I felt that it was worth the chance because I did not want to wonder for the rest of my life what if.You will know if he is worth your time and only you can answer that.

[azuacanadagirl]

Originally Posted by johne

To me it's almost like "can you top this story?" She goes on and on about multi sankies in one night in her life. One leaves her hotel room and she goes to find some others all in the "interest of research."

I'm convinced these are stories of aspiring writers as nobody can be THAT d--b!

BTW--To all aspiring witers: Hold on to your day jobs until such time you meet a sankie that can support you. Yeh right.

Was just trying to help out the OP. And yes it was the first time I was back in an all inclusive for a while and had never really noticed before. So I did dance and meet animation guys, big deal. Isn't it that what they are paid for. As for asking him "do you want to come to Canada?" I was just kidding around, had a few drinks too many. Still, I just thought it was enlightning the things I heard. As for the guy married to a girl from Portugal, he was really funny and he did seem genuine about his feelings for his wife. At least when he talked to me about her. But that didn't stop him from fooling around with others. You see, that is the thing that I have a problem with. I could not deal with that. If others can, good for them. They just need to know that that is what their life is like. Doesn't mean they are bad guys, the guy friends from Canada I was with on vacation, actually thought they were the lucky ones and would have done the same if the girls at the disco gave them the opportunity but they were all too busy drooling over dominicans.

[johne]

Originally Posted by lexi

Hi John,

I am sorry you don't believe me as you are probably jaded from reading so many messages like this one. It is absolutely true and I really had fell for it. That is until I came across this website and more importantly all the posts written about these men.

Now I am upset at myself for falling for it. I go back and forth between wanting to go right back and then not wanting to go again. I wish I could care less but I don't.

If you hate reading these posts...why are you? Move on to something else.

To everyone else - thanks for your writing about your experiences as it does make a difference. Thanks!

Never said "hate reading these posts"--It's just, how can I say this politely,
well forget it, there is no polite way to say it in public.
As far as moving on to something else--you're right--I just ate my lunch and wouldn't want to upset my stomach.
Best of luck to you whatever indecision you might make.

[azuacanadagirl]

Originally Posted by paradise07

That is a really good point that you bring up...is there even a word for "like" in Spanish....I do not know of one...Some things can get lost in translation and do not have the same meaning...like in French, there is no "I like you", it's je t'aime or nada !!!

"te quiero" is more I like you than "te amo" I love you. As for french, you could tell someone "je t'aime bien" which is less than "je t'aime". By the way, tell a guy here "je t'aime" within the first few dates and he'll run for the hills and think you are a lunatic.

[azuacanadagirl]

Originally Posted by marliejaneca

In all fairness, John, azuacanadagirl is legit. She has been through this before and she almost got taken again by the same guy. She is not trying to top this story, just trying to clear her head and remember everything she has learned from us so far!

Marlie ( LOL at your humour too!)

Thank you!

I do see a lot more clearly now than after that second trip two years ago. I am here now and feel sorry for the girls whom are just getting into these longdistance love affairs.

A friend of mine came with me on my second trip to see my "novio" two years ago, he had met a girl. He wanted to go back and I advised him not to. He wanted to help out with a little money, but thanks to all I read here he hasn't and never went back cause I told him about all the info I got on this site.

[**princess]

really come on... a waiter?! that speaks NO english really, and has rung you so much.... would u even think twice, or would you just ignore the call?
a man in canada or uk that did this you'd be like woooah!!

I smell VISA!!!
sorry dont like being mean, i no its hard, but stop the phone calls now.. and always think.. what if?!

princess xx
* i no i was once this stupid, however when u read other peoples you tend to see the light.