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Originally Posted by paradise07
I know this is a forum for Sankies, that's why I asked the question here...I think it's a legitimate discussion...I personally think that Sankies go after Caucasians as well...
I myself recently met a local Dominican in Punta Cana...He has not displayed and SANKIE behavior at all...I think that he is being genuine, but I am approaching this like I would a local guy(where I live)...I myself am from the Caribbean(but born in North America) and could esily pass for a Dominicana...My point is that I think there is a better chance that he is being "real" with me because we share similar culture...
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As a gringo married to a dominican and living in Santiago I would say learn from the Sankie boards the telltale signs of a sankie. I married a Dominican women that I met while sent here to the DR to work 7 years ago and she certainly wasn't a sankiette so meeting someone serious is a possiblity. The problem as I see it with the locals on the coast is that they have a different "mindset" that the Dominicans from the the interior. First of all for the majority of the Dominicans who are poor they have in general a well entrenched "belief" that all foreigners that visit here on vacation are personally wealthy. Second, many of these same Dominicans would prefer to live in NY than in the DR. Also, many aren't opposed to "business marriage" or "such" to in order to obtain the latter.
Keep these facts in mind. Who knows the guy you met may be serious but you really should be wary. As I said read these forums and learn about the sankie "play". As far as getting to know serious Dominican men they come in all varieties of course and you can learn some things to about the Dominican "mentality" in these forums.
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