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Old 01-25-2007, 04:51 AM
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Default sankies are seen in a negative light

There is a lot of negative talk about 'sankies', isn't it the case that relationships between local men and foreign women can be mutually beneficial
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Old 01-25-2007, 05:06 AM
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There is a lot of negative talk about 'sankies', isn't it the case that relationships between local men and foreign women can be mutually beneficial
I don't know if they're beneficial, but if it makes you feel any better, there's a lot of negative talk about the foreign women too.
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Old 01-25-2007, 06:01 AM
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I don't know if they're beneficial, but if it makes you feel any better, there's a lot of negative talk about the foreign women too.
it just seems that all women who enter into a relationship with a sankie is naive, surely a high percentage go into it with there eyes wide open
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Old 01-25-2007, 07:44 AM
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it just seems that all women who enter into a relationship with a sankie is naive, surely a high percentage go into it with there eyes wide open
What's your point, or is it a question?
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Old 01-25-2007, 08:35 AM
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There is a lot of negative talk about 'sankies', isn't it the case that relationships between local men and foreign women can be mutually beneficial
I think the difference is that people who openly engage in these types of relationships with their eyes open as you've put it are sex tourists and not being sankified.

Sankiness involves thinking a relationship is a part of the package (or at least convincing you it does)

If you are going there and knowing you are going to pay to take out a local and give them money isn't that prostitution?
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Old 01-25-2007, 08:42 AM
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Default Sanky Panky... The Movie

A little off subject... but what day in February is "Sanky Panky" the movie being released?

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"http://www.sankypanky.net"
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Old 01-25-2007, 09:06 AM
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helpmann,

check you local all-inclusive for show times....
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Old 01-25-2007, 09:12 AM
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A sankie is a sankie... just because the tourist goes in with eyes wide open doesn't mean that the sankie isn't playing their best game. The only difference is the tourist isn't falling for it!

Not to mention, who says the tourist is paying? If they're going in with eyes wide open, they can play the sankie at their own game..... The "experienced" (or whatever you might call it) sankies seem to invest a little of their own money, because in turn they expect a lot more to come their way later.. once they have the victim hooked.
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Old 01-25-2007, 09:34 AM
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A little off subject... but what day in February is "Sanky Panky" the movie being released?

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Helpmann

"http://www.sankypanky.net"
feb 1st

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Old 01-25-2007, 10:03 AM
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If they are both playing the game then no one is being exploited, but even women who have knowledge of sankies may still believe them
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