Sex Or Love?

[shadInToronto]

Originally Posted by azuacanadagirl

I didn't know about sankies then. ... outcome wouldn't be different.

By the way, I posted our pics on webshot.com. We look so happy together. But is it honest on his part, I guess I will never know. ... no use crying in your beer now!!!

You're a tough nut to crack ... but the sankie is irresistible. Don't blame yourself, you can't control nature.

[marliejaneca]

By the way, I posted our pics on webshot.com. We look so happy together. But is it honest on his part, I guess I will never know.

azuacanadagirl- care to post the link so we may see the pics? - or pm me with it ?

Marlie

[blitz]

Originally Posted by laurapasinifan

I may or may not be one, but there are people that will never be con-ed by a love scam artist. Even though i could come up with explanations to show beyond a doubt the relationship I have with my gf...I would never offer them.. they are personal and no ones buisness. No matter how many wolves come to the door!!!

I disagree completely! The people who don't get conned are those that use their heads over their hearts (or loins), or that don't encounter a "love scam artist" in their lives.

Continuing a relationship with someone you a) met on a holiday (when life is more like a fantasy and rum is flowing) b) live VERY far away from and the BIG one c) come from entirely different backgrounds (socially/financially/culturally/linguistically)

For the record, I'm not bitter (have nothing to be bitter about), and I don't think your relationship is necessarily a bad one. I just think your statement is exactly the kind of naive thinking that results in being sankified.

[Kyle]

maybe i could be a foreign sankie in the DR and get dominican girls...does sankiefication work both ways ???

[laurapasinifan]

Originally Posted by blitz

I disagree completely! The people who don't get conned are those that use their heads over their hearts (or loins)

ha ha ha....you say you dissagree,...that there cant be people who will never get conned....but then you give an example of the type of person who doesnt get conned........

bob

[Audra]

Originally Posted by Kyle

maybe i could be a foreign sankie in the DR and get dominican girls...does sankiefication work both ways ???

what would you get out of her other than sex? What would the con be?

[dingdongdenny]

i guess the con would be that the sex was good.

[laurapasinifan]

Originally Posted by Kyle

maybe i could be a foreign sankie in the DR and get dominican girls...does sankiefication work both ways ???

sure it does.....remember this line

CHECKS IN THE MAIL BABE

bob

[drluver]

Originally Posted by laurapasinifan

ha ha ha bless your soul

you must know the saying.....

"I may not know the correct answer, but I can sure know a wrong answer when I see it"

No I think I was thinking more along the lines of Will running around in an open field in a lightening storm waving a golf club over your head ensure that you get struck by lightning? No one can tell for sure. But odds sure are damn good.

Different from knowing the wrong answer when you see it. Odds are overwhelmingly in favor of it (any Domincan/Foreigner relationship) being a scam. (Regardless of how great your relationship is...I'm not going to debate that with you) But if there were 100 of these relationships definately more then 50 of them would be scams.

Originally Posted by laurapasinifan

so I can say that maybe it is possible for someone to scam me...but it isnt this woman thats for sure.

I wont debate anymore wether my woman is sanktifying me..

I posted to show that things happen in perfect relationships , that look just like things that happen to people being sankitfied.

I made 9 trips in 2006 to see my GF. and have made a total of 16 trips in a little over a year and a half. So please dont put me in the occasional vacationer bin. But I am fine with people thinking what they want about me and my relationship...as long as no one puts down my GF.

As I stated above. I am not going to argue the merits of your relationship. Because honestly it makes no difference to me if you get scammed or not. I have absolutely nothing invested in your relationship.

BUT I would like to ask about how you say it isn't this woman who would be a sankie. Honestly, how do you know? Because she told you so? Because you have seen her interactions with you and know that it is sincere? Because her family tells you so?

Because isn't part of the Sankie experience that its an act? That you don't know? If people knew that they were the ones being conned. There would be a hell of a lot less cons.

There is NO way to know until they are living with you in your country. (Unless of course they slip up and you find out). You can spend time there and increase your odds of catching them if it's a lie, you can visit lots, and talk lots, and do lots of things to help increase the odds that you are that one in a million. But it is impossible to know that their real motives are when they can't be tested.

Originally Posted by laurapasinifan

I may or may not be one, but there are people that will never be con-ed by a love scam artist. Even though i could come up with explanations to show beyond a doubt the relationship I have with my gf...I would never offer them.. they are personal and no ones buisness. No matter how many wolves come to the door!!!

eventually someone wins the lottery, eventually someone is the champ..it happens

some people get bitter , because it is never them.....

bob

You are right eventually someone does win the lottery, but are you willing to risk your future on the fact that the ticket you got today is the winning ticket. Because those numbers sure look pretty, and you have a feeling in your gut that these are the winning numbers, because you did your homework and have calculated that these are the winning numbers? Cause I sure am not. No matter what precautions you take you will never be able to know if you had the winning numbers until after the numbers are drawn and they are with you and you see that infact your relationship/numbers were the winners and you have the money.

And for the record, I have never been duped by a dominican.

[blitz]

I hate to break it to you, but you don't fit that example.

Best of luck to you.

Originally Posted by laurapasinifan

ha ha ha....you say you dissagree,...that there cant be people who will never get conned....but then you give an example of the type of person who doesnt get conned........

bob