Sex Or Love?

juey · #1 01-31-2007, 04:17 AM

Why do foreign women give 'sankies' money and gifts? Is if for pure sex or is it for the hope of love and a lasting relationship?

Rocky · #2 01-31-2007, 05:45 AM

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Originally Posted by juey

Why do foreign women give 'sankies' money and gifts? Is if for pure sex or is it for the hope of love and a lasting relationship?

Both. It would depend on the given person, and the circumstances, but quite obviously, both love and sex play a role.

shadInToronto · #3 01-31-2007, 10:05 AM

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Originally Posted by juey

Why do foreign women give 'sankies' money and gifts? Is if for pure sex or is it for the hope of love and a lasting relationship?

None of the above ... it's not under their control to decide, hormone is the reason.

Kyle · #4 01-31-2007, 10:56 AM

also, they have money and gifts to give. afterall isn't a sankie the opposite of a working girl ?

same basic aspirations ??

AnnaC · #5 01-31-2007, 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by juey

Why do foreign women give 'sankies' money and gifts? Is if for pure sex or is it for the hope of love and a lasting relationship?

You seem a little obsessed with this subject.

Have you read all

Articles and threads about Sankies

Oops sorry I forgot that you're doing a paper or something on it. If you read most of what is in the sankie forum I'm sure you will have all the answers you need.

People that are sankified don't really think they have been taken. You can tell by the way they lash back when they come here to tell a story and people are trying to give good advice which unfortunately is seldom taken.

Kyle · #6 01-31-2007, 11:45 AM

i think it does damage to the psyche to know that a grown adult has just been taken for a ride..hence the "testimony/confession" thread. then they seek deliverance from this forum.

Father, forgive me for i have been sankiefied...

this is not a Catholic church...geesh !!

juey · #7 01-31-2007, 12:01 PM

I suppose its human nature to think that it is different when it comes to them, people don,t want to believe that they have been had even when faced with blatant evidence

shadInToronto · #8 01-31-2007, 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnaC

...People that are sankified don't really think they have been taken. You can tell by the way they lash back

Absolutely true ..... their reality is skewed by a chemical imbalance due to active hormones.

2LeftFeet · #9 01-31-2007, 08:19 PM

They don't realize that it's happening to them. If they did they wouldn't be sucked in. It's like any other con. You're not anticipating it so you're not looking out for it. By the time you realize what's happening it's too late. You've been drawn in, led down a path and eventually emotionally devastated.

" Normal" people don't this to other people. It's really sick that someone could take advantage of someone's vulnerbilities but there are people that lie and wait for people like that. This is their sole function in life. They are blood suckers/parasites.

I wonder how they treat the elderly, mentally ill, retarded, and animals?

I think people question what's happened to them because they trying to come to grips and accept that they have been taken advantage of. I think that's why they don't readily accept the advice. They haven't fully accepted that fact. They're still struggling with the concept.

It's painful to realize that you've used and to realize that the person that YOU cared about didn't care about you. It was all a BIG FAT LIE. They are embarassed and humiliated. " I've been played the fool" " How could've been so stupid" " All that money I sent" If you are older and less attractive he made you feel special and now you feel even worse about yourself and probably ashamed.

laurapasinifan · #10 01-31-2007, 09:46 PM

The way I am looking at this picture...is this website has a forum specifically for Sankie type threads...maybe they spun it out of the men from mars and women from venus forum, which normally would deal with sex and love and relationships.

so

doesnt it follow that if someone comes on here and spills their guts about what going on to them or what happened....NO one has a right to say"

OH NO NOT ANOTHER ONE

thats really hypocritical if you ask me.

the forum is exactly for just those stories...so listen and if you cant say anythign with out bad mouthing the poor soul. dont say anything....

there are plenty of ways to tell someone , they have been made a fool of..

one another note...what is the time frame for someone to fall into this situation that labels them sanktified?

who makes it up also?

is it a one vacation fling...or if a person comes back 6 times....

the reason I ask is based on my relationship....I have what i think is a normal ( alebieth long distance) relationship with a dominican woman.. many of the things that have expired in my time with her, could easily have been labeld a form of being sanktified. But they werent, they were just things that happen in an emotional relationship. I saw many of the thing happens in my time seeing this woman that were totally being called "being played by a snakiette"...but I used my common sense, (just like a lot of other people say they do) to figure out what was going on....you could put the sanky label on half the things that happen between a lovingly MARRIED couple of 10 years. If my gf finds someone else, have I been a sanktified?

dont millions of couple break up when one finds someone else? and just because one person in the relationship paid for more stuff than the other....is one a victim?

I think the sanky labels gets stuck way too fast....I can understand the most obvious AI resort action by the animation guy with some free spirited vacationing girl...who wears her heart out on her sleeve....but people like to put that sanky sticker on many other situations very fast.

I know people tried to tell me my GF had a dominican BF all the time when I first came here. And i was told if my Girl is from the barrios or campos and she is seeing me, it is for one thing. And even if it was true 100 times before me, doesnt make it true. maybe I have been lucky, every one THINKS they have it under control..I guess i was no exception. I have been dating my GF for more than 18 months now...I have bought some stuff, jewelry( because i love her) shoes same reason plus i want her to look as good as she can...it makes me look good. clothes same reason again...i have bought a few things for the house, bought animals, taken relatives on trips with us....and if tomorrow she dumps me....did she sanktify me?

absolutely not. I doubt this woman could ever be a contriving, manipulative sankie ever...but she certainly is capable of falling for someone else

so let the people come and spill their tale at our feet, and dont read it ,if it drives you up a wall..............now if I can only follow my own advice? ha ha ha

do as i say , not as i do....or something to that effect

bob