HELP ASAP!!! my dominican BF playing me?

[Daddy_Dom]

Hi evryone, I am dominican and I see how you guys talk so bad about dominican just for $100... Dominicans are very vaulable than 100, The good time in DR of the asian girl is more valuable than 100.. maybe he is not honest, maybe he want go out with other girl with this 100, but who knows more this Dominican guy that the asian girl. she shared with him and she can know if he say liar or true. Dominican Republic have good people, workers and with big hearts... Not all is bad, not all is good, just make a good choice!! Bye Bye!!!!!

[Hillbilly]

Didn't you have a walk on part in "Sanky Panky" the movie??? Seems you "doth protest too much?" (following the Bard's words)

HB

[Ladybird]

Originally Posted by Hillbilly

Didn't you have a walk on part in "Sanky Panky" the movie??? Seems you "doth protest too much?" (following the Bard's words)

HB

You are not only ultra intelligent HB but a master Bard of wit

[Ladybird]

Originally Posted by Daddy_Dom

Hi evryone, I am dominican and I see how you guys talk so bad about dominican just for $100... Dominicans are very vaulable than 100, The good time in DR of the asian girl is more valuable than 100.. maybe he is not honest, maybe he want go out with other girl with this 100, but who knows more this Dominican guy that the asian girl. she shared with him and she can know if he say liar or true. Dominican Republic have good people, workers and with big hearts... Not all is bad, not all is good, just make a good choice!! Bye Bye!!!!!

Welcome to the board, its good to have another Dominican op, do you live in the DR?

[Daddy_Dom]

Hi LadyBird, yes I am living in Santo Domingo, Domincan Republic... and you ?
If HillBilly is saying that to me about the movie, I saw it, and it is a good movie with much real things and the end give a good message... I lked it!

Sorry if sometimes I write something wrong in english, i am learning!!

[jenfau]

Question #1 How long have you really known him weeks months years?(you should have a sense of what he is about)
#2 Are you more afraid of what others think?(that really can mess you up)
Only you can make that decision on giving him that money it maybe a red flag and like you said its not the money that bothers you.You are afraid of him using you.
You could do several things.1. Say no and run never talk again(#1 choice for those that know and been there)
2. Say no and wait and see how he treats you does he change and doesn't call etc..
3.Scary but give him the money and see what happens. If it not going to change your life or put you in debt than 100 will not matter. But knowing will.

I'm a big believer on taking chances because life is too short not too.If you decide to give him the money just don't make it a habit because than it is hard to build a relationship on doubts.End it as fast as you can once you get your answers.Don't just end it because that is what most say to do. They are probably right in their cases.But everyone is different but listen to them and the advice but keep your guard up.Most here know what they are talking about but in the end its you that has to live with it.
From what I have learned they are very proud people and asking for money does not make them feel good(the sankies yes)We here in Canada or Usa or elsewhere do make more than most but that doesn't make us better.We have to understand that somethings are not obtainable for some like visiting their bf or gf .So giving someone money doesn't automatically make them a sankie and are scaming us.Do we not give money to friends if in need sometimes should we judge them for that.Not everyone meets a dominican man or woman who has lots of money.So having them pay for everything is sometimes unrealistic.Just be careful and do what is good for you.

[M.A.R.]

Originally Posted by Daddy_Dom

Hi evryone, I am dominican and I see how you guys talk so bad about dominican just for $100... Dominicans are very vaulable than 100, The good time in DR of the asian girl is more valuable than 100.. maybe he is not honest, maybe he want go out with other girl with this 100, but who knows more this Dominican guy that the asian girl. she shared with him and she can know if he say liar or true. Dominican Republic have good people, workers and with big hearts... Not all is bad, not all is good, just make a good choice!! Bye Bye!!!!!

are you a sanky??
sorry but it sounds like if you are defending sankys.

[jenfau]

How does it make him a sanky for pointing out some facts.I think he is defending her more and that in the end its her choice.Could it be he is actually a decent guy saying what he sees the good and the bad.Why are we so quick to judge otherwise.

[Ladybird]

Originally Posted by jenfau

How does it make him a sanky for pointing out some facts.I think he is defending her more and that in the end its her choice.Could it be he is actually a decent guy saying what he sees the good and the bad.Why are we so quick to judge otherwise.

Exactly right Jen, this Dominican is actually a qualified engineer doesnt that make MAR look foolish

[jenfau]

Some are so closed minded and are ready to see only the negative.Most here are here to offer their advice.Most are sincere.Others not so much.Some that come here looking for help just need some helpful advice.Not judgement