Finally there's a woman here who looks at life, somewhat logically.
We are on this earthly plain for but a short time. As far as we know, we only get one shot at it.
Therefore, enjoy the hell out of it. Go, have fun, **** your brains out. You deserve it.
And when your husband has his moment of glory with a teen or 20 something beauty, know that it has nothing to do with you, but rather, like you, his biological desires are for something young and nubile.
Enjoy your home, and your children, and your pretend life in the burbs as church people. Don't let anything take away what you already have.
But also enjoy other things too. Don't let yourself be limited by those phony and unreasonable expectations perpetrated by those outside of you.
Congratulations on your new explorations. May you have memories worthy of enjoyment in your old age.
R
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Originally Posted by Lustful
Okay. Short summary -- basic line. Older woman visiting DR gets hit on by much younger Dominican man. Same kind of lines used as reported on this forum. So here is the bottom line. I was sexually turned on by this guy. That's it. He did not speak much English and I little Spanish. I am married and was travelling with friends and except for some kissing that was it.
However, I haven't felt such sexual arousal in a long time. I could have easily crossed the line. We exhanged emails and correspond when we can. Yes he loves me and wants to see me again --- same lines again. However, he seems like a nice guy and I am not naive. I get the picture.
I will be returning to the DR to volunteer on a local project working with kids. He does not know I am coming.
So do I listen to the rationale side of me -- this guy only wants money and will eventually ask for it (by the way I don't blame him -- I am aware of the poverty in the area) I should not take advantage of him.
Or do link up with him for my sexual pleasure -- I certainly can't see him getting much out of it? I know if we see each other, this is exactly what I will be looking for. Do I ask up front how much money does he want? If I do give in to my carnal desires, I think I should know what I am getting into and what I should expect.
Any comments. (By the way I am in no way looking for any kind of relationship as I am sure this young man is not interested in this from me.) But boy it sounds like fun. Another question to any male respondents. I am okay looking, of course nice, fun and I'll talk to anyone, but seriously, how do youger guys even get it up when picking up older, average looking women. I can see us getting into the guys but really!!!
Lustful
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