Have I been sankified?

[Kyle]

sounds like you are just friends at this point. if he is indeed a sankie, he is probably working on you and many others. only time will tell.

enjoy his company and see what happens...

good luck

[Audra]

I agree with azabache. If its not financially draining and your enjoying his company, keep going. If you have read all the links on here about sankies, you know what the warning signs are. Practice safe sex and enjoy!

[drloca]

The "not asking for $$$" means nothing...he is liekly getting $$ from other girls! That way he can treat you "like a lady".

[Hillbilly]

Yes, you have been "sankified".

So? No nice guys up in Union City or West New York??? Or is it the beach, and the line....

Have fun, but fugeddaboutit...

HB

[AZB]

Why is it women are so fascinated by poor uneducated guys who work in hotels and make 200 dollars / month? Don't these women have loser back home who are equally uneducated and live in ghettos? I bet its not that easy to find guys who are total losers in canada and USA. I thought we have plenty there.
AZB

[miguel]

Originally Posted by AZB

Same old story. Can someone make upsomething different so we won't get bored to death here?
AZB

You are right brotha, same ol' boring crapola!.

Same old story:

"He never asks for money", "He is one in a million", "He is perfect", "He took me to meet his family", "I only pay for little things, he pays almost always".

Give me a fricking break!!!!!!!!!!!!.

Back to my rock I go!.

[Kyle]

there's nothing wrong with a little bump and grind

[2LeftFeet]

Let me ask you something-- How is his Spanish? My Spanish is pretty bad but I'm learning. Spanish is his 1st language. It should be better than mine. Can he spell? Is it -- me voy o me boy? unibercidad o universidad? An occassional mistake but on an on going basis says something else. Can he speak it properly? That says a lot about somebody. I don't have my college degree but I read constantly and try to better myself all the time.

Would you be ashamed to bring him home to your family?

Thoughts to ponder!

I don't know if he would be wasting his time setting you up after 1 year!

[Efernandez]

Originally Posted by azabache

Por la caridad del cobre cubanita...my opinion, you should just keep on going the way you have this past year, keep the antennas up, enjoy the ride and see what happens.
If I had been a reader of this forum when I met my wife I probably would have been very hesitant to share my life with her. I'm glad I wasn't a reader of this forum at that time.
BTW you must have a really great job that allows you to spend so much time traveling to the DR. Good for you...and good luck too.

Thank You! Im a elementary school teacher so i have alot of vacation time...
BTW, I always wear my azabache and nothing has happened to me thus far. so thank you again.

[Efernandez]

Originally Posted by 2LeftFeet

Let me ask you something-- How is his Spanish? My Spanish is pretty bad but I'm learning. Spanish is his 1st language. It should be better than mine. Can he spell? Is it -- me voy o me boy? unibercidad o universidad? An occassional mistake but on an on going basis says something else. Can he speak it properly? That says a lot about somebody. I don't have my college degree but I read constantly and try to better myself all the time.

Would you be ashamed to bring him home to your family?

Thoughts to ponder!

I don't know if he would be wasting his time setting you up after 1 year!

Hey,
Spanish is his only language...hahaha. He speaks very well. I was suprised when i meet him i didnt believe he was actually Dominican! No "que lo que's" or any of that slang you hear so much of here or even in Washington Heigts. He is a college student and needs two more semesters to finsih actually. And yes he is in school becuase last time i visited him i assisted class with him. At first i may have been a little embarrassed to introduce him to mami and papi but but not anymore. Actually, funny how things work out, my parents are invited to a wedding in Bavaro this summer and we are gonna meet up with them there. So, he will ultimatley meet the parents.
Well, im glad to hear that you read alot! As a teacher reading is very important and im actually teaching him English. I really hope im not being played but i am watching for the signs. Thank you very much.