Have I been sankified?

[Efernandez]

Originally Posted by AZB

Why is it women are so fascinated by poor uneducated guys who work in hotels and make 200 dollars / month? Don't these women have loser back home who are equally uneducated and live in ghettos? I bet its not that easy to find guys who are total losers in canada and USA. I thought we have plenty there.
AZB

Wow, i think you are realy bitter AZB. There are lots of losers here in the USA as you call it and they usually dont make any money at all. They dont work in hotels, they sell drugs and are highschool dropouts who live off their parents. There is nothing wrong with being poor and uneducated. I would bet that lots of our own family were poor and uneducated when they came to the "USA" and made their living by working their asses off. There are alot of bad people out there in this world and you do need to watch out. But, maybe just maybe some of these "poor uneducated losers who work in hotels" actually have something to offer and it's looked over because of where they are from and the way they look. Im not saying to give everyone the benefit of the doubt but geees dude lighten up alittle. You're obviously still reading the threads so you must enjoy the gossip at least a tiny bit right?

[Efernandez]

Originally Posted by Hillbilly

Yes, you have been "sankified".

So? No nice guys up in Union City or West New York??? Or is it the beach, and the line....

Have fun, but fugeddaboutit...

HB

hahaha, no nice guys here in Union city or even West New York hahaha. The beach is too cold and dirty and there are way to many muscle heads at the Jersey Shore to even bother with. Actually come to think of it i dont know whats worse a guido fist pumpin to "techno" or a sankie dancing bachata hahaha

[shadInToronto]

Originally Posted by Efernandez

... Tell me what you guys think.

You did solicit feedback, but it appears you'd rather have responses that agree with your thinking.

Just one comment, I surmise your goal is to help him 'make something of himself'. If you like him as a person, you should accept him as he is and not try to change him.

And whether you were sankified, you didn't say if he got IT.

[shadInToronto]

Originally Posted by Efernandez

... Im just wondering if it could all be a plot and im blind to see it.

Perhaps he's thinking the same thing .... some woman he met at the resort wants him to go back to school then take him away from his 'leisurely sankie life'

[azabache]

Originally Posted by AZB

Why is it women are so fascinated by poor uneducated guys who work in hotels and make 200 dollars / month? Don't these women have loser back home who are equally uneducated and live in ghettos? I bet its not that easy to find guys who are total losers in canada and USA. I thought we have plenty there.
AZB

IMHO if women are so fascinated by poor uneducated guys who work in hotels and make 200 dollars a month, than it must be for some kind of a reason. It's true women prefer to have a man that has money but I don't think having money makes us automatically desirable. Let's face it guys, we need to get our act together. Maybe some of the losers and uneducated know how do something whole lot better than we do. Simply spoken, we need to know how to be more than insensitive, overweight, ill mannered macho types with cash in our pockets.
I'm not trying to suck up to the ladies, but men, we need to get our act together and learn how to treat the ladies.
In some ways a female brain is so far different from a male brain that it almost seems we are two different species. Men need to understand this. We need to learn how to think and speak female--so to speak. Sankies, for example, are so successful with women because they took the time one day to learn something about their psychology, their needs, and why they act the way they do. Men who want to be successful with women need to take a few lessons from the experts. The poor chopos who women sometimes choose, don't have a lot of money but they do know how to put the macho crap aside long enough to learn how to make a woman feel glad that she's a woman. It's not always the money the turns the woman on. These days women have money too.

[Alyonka]

Sometimes wealthy men think too much of themselves, have too many requirements from a woman and put them out to her without showing any interest in what she thinks about it. Sometimes it takes a lot of money to be with someone wealthy because they also want to split the bill and make all the "rich" choices. Being with a person is not about how much they have it is about who they are and how they make you feel.

[drloca]

Lets not forget that having money doesnt = having class!!!!

On many occasions, I have seen people with money who are "mal educado".

[AnnaC]

Originally Posted by azabache

In some ways a female brain is so far different from a male brain that it almost seems we are two different species. Men need to understand this. We need to learn how to think and speak female--so to speak. Sankies, for example, are so successful with women because they took the time one day to learn something about their psychology, their needs, and why they act the way they do. Men who want to be successful with women need to take a few lessons from the experts. The poor chopos who women sometimes choose, don't have a lot of money but they do know how to put the macho crap aside long enough to learn how to make a woman feel glad that she's a woman. It's not always the money the turns the woman on. These days women have money too.

Very true, tell a woman what she wants to hear or is missing and they don't know what hit them. Mirroring, they are very good at it.

They repeat what a women says to them, thoughts, feelings, likes and dislikes are the same as the woman, OMG I found my soul mate!!!

It's all fake of course if we're talking about sankies but hey that's how they operate.

They get to the womans most erotic organ, the one between the ears.

[Efernandez]

Originally Posted by shadInToronto

You did solicit feedback, but it appears you'd rather have responses that agree with your thinking.

Just one comment, I surmise your goal is to help him 'make something of himself'. If you like him as a person, you should accept him as he is and not try to change him.

And whether you were sankified, you didn't say if he got IT.

In part i must disagree with you because the reason i asked my question was to hear all types of responses. I am able to accept all opinions and respect them as they are. Yes, of course its nice to hear some agreement but that dosnt necesarilly mean that is what im looking for. Im looking for "feedback" from people who know the culture a bit more then I.
On your second thought, I do accept him for who he is and Im not trying to change him. I dont believe that giving someone the motivation that they may need to better themselves means Im manipulating him to be someone he is not. I didnt tell him "you have to go back to school" i simply explained that now a days in any country you live in, it is a tiny bit easy to make something of yourself if you have an education. Hey, dont get me wrong there are many people out there that are very sucessful and dont have a masters degree. In the end its just a piece of paper but its nice to know that you can make a difference in somones life....i guess that's just the teacher in me talking.
On getting "IT", i dont remember that being in my original post so that isnt an issue for me. It's not about sex its about more then that.

[Efernandez]

Originally Posted by drloca

Lets not forget that having money doesnt = having class!!!!

On many occasions, I have seen people with money who are "mal educado".

Ugh i totally agree with that. Please I know so many Cubanos arrepentidos who have lots and lots of money and are super chusma! Money only changes your bank account and possibly your waredrobe( not always though) hahaha but it dosnt change who you were before you had it. Sometimes I've seen it makes people worse. So, yes i agree money does not = cache