Have I been sankified?

[Efernandez]

Hi,
Ok so i just joined the forum so i would like to know if i have been "Sankied" or not. Now, listen to the whole story bf you comment. Ill make it short i promise. A year ago this month I went to Punta Cana. By, the way I am from New Jersey but I am cuban so i speak the language and all. Ok so i meet this guy at the Pacha nightclub. We hit it off and i invited him to the beach the next day. He worked in the hotel adjacent to mine. He came over and we had a great time. We spent the next couple afternoons together just hanging out at the beach with my other friends, but there was something there. Well, it was time for us to come back to NJ and we said we would keep in touch. Its been a year later and we talk every day. i have been there three times since last july and im leaving on Monday for the whole month of july and part of august. He dosnt ask me for money but he does tell me Te amo. I have meet his family and even speak with his mom who resides in Spain. About 5 months after we meet he decieded he wanted to finish school instead of work at a resort, which i was happy about since im a professional and that worried me a little. But, he is poor in comparison to me but i dont really care about that. I see something in him that i havnt seen before and I have been married before so i have some experience. Im just wondering if it could all be a plot and im blind to see it. Tell me what you guys think.

[MarkusL1]

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.

Not very helpful to your question?
Well, that's probably because answers to questions like this are always within yourself and not on a message board.

Good luck either way. )

[samanasuenos]

Do you ever pay for anything?
Has he ever asked for money?

[Hlywud]

Originally Posted by samanasuenos

Do you ever pay for anything?
Has he ever asked for money?

He dosnt ask me for money but he does tell me Te amo.

[AZB]

Same old story. Can someone make upsomething different so we won't get bored to death here?
AZB

[Efernandez]

Originally Posted by AZB

Same old story. Can someone make upsomething different so we won't get bored to death here?
AZB

well AZB thanks for the insight. Im sorry i bore you.

[Efernandez]

Originally Posted by samanasuenos

Do you ever pay for anything?
Has he ever asked for money?

Yeah, like i said before, he does not ask me for money and the last time i stayed at his house in Cotui i offered to pay for a couple of beers and that was it. He pays for everything else.

[Efernandez]

Originally Posted by MarkusL1

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.

Not very helpful to your question?
Well, that's probably because answers to questions like this are always within yourself and not on a message board.

Good luck either way. )

Yeah, i know that i need to figure it out on my own. I was just looking for a little feedback from others to see if what i feel is real or not. Thanks though I like the cigar analogy...it is what it is right!

[caro]

what was is work at the hotel ?

who make the call ?

ask you the same question if you have meet him in your own city....

[azabache]

Por la caridad del cobre cubanita...my opinion, you should just keep on going the way you have this past year, keep the antennas up, enjoy the ride and see what happens.
If I had been a reader of this forum when I met my wife I probably would have been very hesitant to share my life with her. I'm glad I wasn't a reader of this forum at that time.
BTW you must have a really great job that allows you to spend so much time traveling to the DR. Good for you...and good luck too.