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07-06-2007, 10:55 PM
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BJP - I have no idea how long you have known this man and what your relationship with him is. But, how fair is it for you to be totally unavailable to him sexually and he is not allowed to be intimate with anyone else. If you were married, that would be a fair expectation, although I don't believe a married man would stay frustrated for long either. Sorry, it is often the nature of the beast.
I can only speak for men as I am a man. But, men can sometimes very easily believe they are being loyal and faithful as long as the fling is a one-night thing that is only physical and does not involve an emotional connection.
Long distance relationships are hugely problematic and based on too much fantasy. I don't care if you are dating someone in DR or France or Japan.
Believe me, he sees dollars signs and visas and green cards. He may see other things too, but you cannot be so blind to the fact that the dollar signs, visas, and green cards loom as large as the Sistine Chapel ceiling. This is part of what you bring to the table and it appeals to him.
I am not saying he is a bad guy. Decent people love Michelangelo.
Last edited by oceanbound; 07-06-2007 at 11:01 PM.
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07-06-2007, 11:06 PM
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On Vaction for a few weeks!
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Pa' que mas.....
When you have oceanbound, Alyonka, SassyLady and BJP posting on a thread, say goodbye to your common sense, whahahaha!!. Just "kidding".
Froggy:
"Have I told you lately that you are my hero?".
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07-06-2007, 11:08 PM
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The Frog's Version
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Originally Posted by BJP
m'frog-Please clue me in on how what anyone does (not just him) in their life whether right or wrong makes it the fault of someone else?
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Not necessarily someone else. 
It could be a drink, a sofa, the moon.... 
You'll see, have patience.
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...I would like to hear your version of what a macho "culture" is.
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I live in it.
Taking advantage of it.
Maybe that's why I am here....
Again: You'll find out.
Have patience.
(Start practising to shut up.)
m'frog
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07-06-2007, 11:15 PM
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Originally Posted by miguel
When you have oceanbound, Alyonka, SassyLady and BJP posting on a thread, say goodbye to your common sense, whahahaha!!. Just "kidding".
Froggy:
"Have I told you lately that you are my hero?".
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I am always calling him that Miguel. However I still agree with one of your earlier posts, I do NOT believe BJP is for real, the story is too pat. Its a DOM posting
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07-06-2007, 11:18 PM
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Oceanbound- I have been with my guy for 16 months now and been back to the Dominican Republic about 9 times. Are you suggesting that the sexual needs of a man outweigh the sexual needs of a woman?How fair is it for me that he is not available 24/7 to satisfy my needs? I have been married before and I was available whenever my husband wanted to me intimate. i cannot say the same for him.Don't you think women can also perceive themselves as being faithful as long as there is no emotional connection? It works both ways you know. If he sees a visa in his future thats ok with me because I do not want to live in the Dominican republic and he needs a visa to be with me.Maybe the visa and money signs do loom as large as the Sistine Chapel, but he has never seen anything that beautiful in his country and I want him to.
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07-06-2007, 11:25 PM
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Oceanbound- I have been with my guy for 16 months now and been back to the Dominican Republic about 9 times. Are you suggesting that the sexual needs of a man outweigh the sexual needs of a woman?How fair is it for me that he is not available 24/7 to satisfy my needs? I have been married before and I was available whenever my husband wanted to me intimate. i cannot say the same for him.Don't you think women can also perceive themselves as being faithful as long as there is no emotional connection? It works both ways you know. If he sees a visa in his future thats ok with me because I do not want to live in the Dominican republic and he needs a visa to be with me.Maybe the visa and money signs do loom as large as the Sistine Chapel, but he has never seen anything that beautiful in his country and I want him to.
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This poster is not real. I cannot beleive this woman says she is 50 or so. BJP - advice: try telling this to your man and let us know what he says.
I am so much looking forward to this
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07-06-2007, 11:25 PM
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On Vacation!
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Beautiful Things
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...It works both ways you know.
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Not in his world.
You're in for a 'culture' shock.
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...Sistine Chapel, but he has never seen anything that beautiful in his country and I want him to.
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Oh, taking him to the Pope's Palace then...
That's good.
Hope, he doesn't have other plans...
m'frog
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07-06-2007, 11:28 PM
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Froggy I suggest you start practicing shutting up ans not taking advantage of "it"
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07-06-2007, 11:32 PM
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Ldybird- Thanks for the support. Believe me I would not be wasting my time on this site making up stories that are not true.
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07-06-2007, 11:34 PM
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Alyonka- If I could speak fluent Spanish I would be telling my man much more than I can.
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