Sankie Traits or NOT?

[honeybunch]

my points about the phone cards and calling is that in miguels handbook sankie for dummies it stated that a sankie will not call for weeks, or say he doesnt have money to call or say his phone was cut off and not here from him. my points are taht,,,,,,he is not doing this, he is doing teh opposite of what the sankie article is saying. he is calling,,,,,,sankies supposedly dont call all the time,,,,,or cant call, or have no money to call, He does though.that is the only point im trying to make. but yet everyone still says its a sankie trait.
if he had a girl with him,,,,,,then why or how is he calling me everynight and during the day still like he used to even when he had his cell phone??? we talk at teh same times always (at lunch and before bed) that has not changed regardless of cell phone in repair.

[daydream]

I am sure there is something in Miguel's post that also says that in the beginning he will make the effort.......it's early days and he is still reeling you in so to speak.......and then, when he knows he's got you where he wants you (hooked you in), that's when he will start to call less....and you will find that you are doing all the calling because it's cheaper for you to call him and he doesn't earn much so it's fairer for you to pay for the calling.........that's when he will start to ask for things or start with the 'my mother is sick', 'I need X, Y & Z but I can't afford it', I wanted to call you but I had no money to buy a card' etc etc.

How long have you known him?

I hope for your sake that we are wrong - I hope that he is different....but as I said in one of my previous posts to a recent sanky thread - the only thing that will convince you or show you whether he is indeed a sanky is TIME..........

You have heard all we have to say and now you must draw your own conclusions.......


I wish you all the best

daydream

[Janin]

Honeybunch is totally ignorant about a sankie's strategy.

Sankies have priorities,
Let's say a sankie wants to go to Canada because some of his friends are already there or he knows a girl there....
Thus he will hook up with any Canadian holiday prostitute in order to get a visa to Canada, which, I think, is fair enough...
(Size, ugliness, age and stupidity do not matter and could even be 'stabilizing' assets.)

If that requires investments (phone calls, gifts, etc.) - so be it. It's a businessman's strategy, bait will produce return...
Other 'milking cows' - better looking Europeans for example - will have to pay for the Canadian 'project'...

From what I read Honeybunch is the perfect victim.

And that's gooooood.

Janin

[honeybunch]

ok let me ask you guys this......(first of all as much as you guys **** me off sometimes....i do appreciate your responses as i go through this to determine if he is a sankie or if he is that little percent that is not)
my question is:

what should he be doing that will show he is not a sankie?

you point out the sankie points......but have not said what kinds of things will show that he is NOT a sankie! please dont say,,,,he cant be a resort worker, because as i remember reading in a few posts, that not all sankies are resort workers......and there is that small number that are not.

[whirleybird]

Originally Posted by honeybunch

ok let me ask you guys this......(first of all as much as you guys **** me off sometimes....i do appreciate your responses as i go through this to determine if he is a sankie or if he is that little percent that is not)
my question is:

what should he be doing that will show he is not a sankie?

you point out the sankie points......but have not said what kinds of things will show that he is NOT a sankie! please dont say,,,,he cant be a resort worker, because as i remember reading in a few posts, that not all sankies are resort workers......and there is that small number that are not.

This is soooooooooooooo boring, if he is not a Sankie get on and enjoy it and stop telling us all about it.

[AnnaC]

We have a thread on that too but I'm sure you'll see only what you want.

http://www.dr1.com/forums/men-mars-w...an-sankie.html


BTW since you have no problem posting your life here what is this rumour about him that you mentioned in another thread?

Oh yes and not all sankies are in resorts some are working elsewhere in other tourist areas



It's so hard to see someone drowing and you can't save them

[montreal]

Originally Posted by Janin

Other 'milking cows' - better looking Europeans for example - will have to pay for the Canadian 'project'

Janin

You trying to say Europeans are better looking that Canucks? Then you haven't seen the women in Montreal

[Janin]

A strategy involves time.
The more valuable the objective is (e.g. a Canadian visa) the more time, money and patience the sankie will invest.
There have been cases in which sankies played their role in perfect deceit for several years just to walk free at arrival at the airport in the 'promised land'...

Only time will tell.

Your hormonal state will not allow for patience.
You're hooked and done. That's your problem.

May the Caribbean Gods help you!

Janin

[whirleybird]

As long as we keep answering it will continue to happen, i.e. the questions - wouldn't it be better to just ignore the OP?

[honeybunch]

anna i read that thread already and in comparison it wasnt pointing to sankie. i read all the sankie threads!!

i dont want to talk about the rumour as you guys are not that supportive and would only bash it anyways. ive been bashed enough already! hahahaha