3rd Times' a "CHARM"...?

Lapurr · #1 01-30-2008, 05:00 PM

reetings,

Well I have just returned once again from the beautiful sugary sands of DR...and I have to tell you this last trip really threw me for a loop, I went with my beautiful daughter and her cousin, another 2 weeks in paradise...came back to the same resort, same bartenders, same friends same everything we had made the last 2 trips..and still No idea "Sanky Panky " exists, there were many opportunities for "these so called friends" to tell us about Sankies..or even warn us that this an epidemic in tourism...I was clueless, I didn't even learn of the word until I returned home and started getting " Dominican Death threats" ...Oh yes...seems to me my Sanky "the waiter" was very much into a relationship and not to mention very much busted for a text message he received by me...only she got to it first!

Luckily I was on my last 3 days before my trip needed, it was new years eve, I had a few drinks and when the fireworks went off, we connected...we never even glanced at each other before, I had seen him all 3 stays, but I was not interested in any kind of relationship with any of them, so I believe when they say it's in the eyes...I gave him a glance of approval, I know how I flirt, I provoked him to pick me. Do they pick us? do we pick them? either way..in 3 days I was hooked...3 days, I have been single for about 5 years, i am 35 years old...mind you i look and feel younger, Everyone thought my daughter was just a friend.

I'm just grateful I got the phone call from the girlfriend ? wife? whichever she is, there was allot of Spanish yelling I didn't understand, the words I did understand were "DEAD" and Sanky Panky- I thought she was asking me if I did Hanky Panky? like I said clueless..
I called my Canadian friend that lives in DR and he is the one that told me about DR1 and this forum..I have to say thanks for this...you guys have definitely helped me get over the "hurt" feelings, I was starting to develop feelings for him, and I am extremely generous I think if I hadn't discovered this forum I would have listened to the excuses that quickly came by text.Instead I changed my cell number so that neither of them can reach me again.

fortunately the girls had an amazing vacation, they enjoyed the eye candy very much but not enough to fall for prey.
I will be drfinately visiting those sugary sands again, however..i will proceed with caution..and maybe try a new resort.
thanks for sharing your stories...all the best and happy and safe travels!

planner · #2 01-30-2008, 05:17 PM

So glad your friend told you about DR1, and really glad you found out quickly what this is all about.

But don't forget to come back! You can still have amazing vacations here....

Lapurr · #3 01-30-2008, 11:36 PM

DR definately has a special place in my heart, everyone we have met, including the woman have been great, at first it may take a bit to warm up to the woman, but regardless the people have been friendly and welcomed us with open arms. The music the dancing, the stars, the ocean...really paradise..I will be back.

thank you!

Lapurr · #4 02-01-2008, 06:12 PM

Looking back...Another thing that was somewhat disturbing, One of the dancers we became friends with had her son at the resort for Christmas, a real handsome kid about 10 years old!!

the animation staff were encouraging him to talk to a younger tourist girl, but he insisted he wanted to marry me...again i'm 35...Now..I may be at complete fault for this..it was Christmas day, and i thought here's a sweet kid... i gave him$20, a small gift for Christmas, to get himself something...and that was it, after that all he talked about was marring me!! Holding my hand ,kissing me, hugging me,telling me how beautiful i am ..all this from a 10 year old.*sigh* i feel terrible..did i just corrupt a child ?

bryan1258 · #5 02-01-2008, 06:23 PM

Yes you corrupted a child.

shame on you!!!

Lapurr · #6 02-02-2008, 02:24 AM

Thanks Bryan...you are so sensative towards ones feelings!!

I think he was already being "groomed" for the role!!
Although I made it too easy for him.

my bad!!

oceanbound · #7 02-02-2008, 08:17 PM

Why would a 10 year old even be talking this way?

hmmmmmmmmmm This is not normal behavior for a 10 year old child. A 10 year old child can't even begin to imagine leaving mommy. Maybe there is no mommy and you were his mommy wanna-be.

This had to do with a maternal deprevation/starvation, not romantic love. This young boy needs psychological help. God bless him.

Lapurr · #8 02-03-2008, 03:05 PM

Ocean, he has a mommy-but you are right about maternal deprevation/starvation,he only sees her 6 days out of a month!! I'm not sure who takes care of him,while she is at work?
these people work so hard, long hours to make a living and support their families.I couldnt imagine only seeing my daughter 6 days a month, it would be so hard!

Berzin · #9 02-03-2008, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Lapurr

Ocean, he has a mommy-but you are right about maternal deprevation/starvation,he only sees her 6 days out of a month!! I'm not sure who takes care of him,while she is at work?
these people work so hard, long hours to make a living and support their families.I couldnt imagine only seeing my daughter 6 days a month, it would be so hard!

She doesn't have enough time to spend with her child but she has enough time to make sure he is learning how to become a sanky. Oh brother...

mountainfrog · #10 02-03-2008, 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Lapurr

... here's a sweet kid... i gave him$20, a small gift for Christmas, to get himself something...and that was it, after that all he talked about was marring me!! Holding my hand ,kissing me, hugging me,telling me how beautiful i am ..all this from a 10 year old.*sigh* i feel terrible..did i just corrupt a child ?

Daily procedure, although done on a different age level...

The trade is obviously passed on to the offspring at a very early age.

m'frog