Time for a review

[AnnaC]

I might talk to the boss about removing this service of " does anyone know". I don't think it helps anyone if this kind of thing goes on and I know it does, it's not the first time. ( meaning that people asking are not the ones involved in the relationship)

All the info anyone could possible need to determine if their new found friend/lover is a sankie or not is all here and the DR1 articles.

Do you guys really think it helps anyone if someone sends a PM saying yes I know Joe blow and I know all the people he's been with? It was always my theory that it does not and that people have to determine for themselves if they are involved with a sankie or not. If they can't determine this for themselves after reading the articles provided nothing anyone will say can convince them.

Feed back please

[marliejaneca]

I do not know if it helps or not, but it always concerned me that unscrupulous persons would take advantage of it. What I mean is, the OP would be opening themselves up for anyone to pm them and make up stories or tell them outright lies just for kicks. This could be devestating for the person asking, especially if it wasn't true.

Or do I just have a devious mind???

Marlie

[AnnaC]

You're right Marlie, that can certainly happen since we don't know what is being said or if it's true.

[M.A.R.]

Well Anna i think only the women that have asked for this kinda of information would know if it has helped.

or have any of these women gotten back to you about the helpful info provided to them, through PM?

[Alyonka]

Originally Posted by marliejaneca

I do not know if it helps or not, but it always concerned me that unscrupulous persons would take advantage of it. What I mean is, the OP would be opening themselves up for anyone to pm them and make up stories or tell them outright lies just for kicks. This could be devestating for the person asking, especially if it wasn't true.

Or do I just have a devious mind???

Marlie

I agree, a lot of people make things up just to screw up somebody else's relationship. Some of these women/men might actually be after the same guy/girl and would want his/her actual partner to dump that person. I have had this happen to me in the past and realize at this point in life how crazy some men and women can be.

[AnnaC]

I get more PM's about the overall info on DR1 helping them. I've never had one from anyone that posted a name and said they broke up because they found out that the guy had many others.

So that is why I think that they have to determine for themselves based on the info provided here.

[DOMINCAN BOY]

If you would like to PM the op it is up to you to decide if they are telling the truth read between the lines

Annac ditch M F M less work for you then you can spend more time with the grand children ?

[Alyonka]

Yes, the overall information provided here is great and you do realize how true it is once you actually travel to the DR.

But it really does not help to figure out how sincere a bf/gf can be by talking to others, really. Actually, talking to another person can be very dangerous because they can have a hidden agenda.

[AnnaC]

Originally Posted by DOMINCAN BOY

If you would like to PM the op it is up to you to decide if they are telling the truth read between the lines

Annac ditch M F M less work for you then you can spend more time with the grand children ?

Yes I'm going there soon, but it's not about my time but trying to fine tune this thing where we are of help and are not caught in the middle of a lot of drama or pain to others.

Mars/Venus will always be useful it's only the " does anyone know" portion I want to ditch.

[leekiv]

Get rid of it. I mean really who does it help! No one really listens to the advice and must find out on their own. They can do that by reading the vast sankie stuff on here Just my opinion