No Groans... but I have to ask..."Sankie or not"

[yess]

"i dont usually care about what people think but for me it was sad to think that if i was with a dominican male, some people would automatically assume "sanky panky" i know i cant change people's perceptions...i just wanted to vent a bit more than anything."

I got this big on my recent trips, the looks we got, especially at the airport as I was leaving. Of course it didn't help that he put on a thick fake accent and said loudly, "ah mi gringa come back soon I need the visa!"

gee thanks sweetie

[sherri]

Originally Posted by yess

"i dont usually care about what people think but for me it was sad to think that if i was with a dominican male, some people would automatically assume "sanky panky" i know i cant change people's perceptions...i just wanted to vent a bit more than anything."

I got this big on my recent trips, the looks we got, especially at the airport as I was leaving. Of course it didn't help that he put on a thick fake accent and said loudly, "ah mi gringa come back soon I need the visa!"
gee thanks sweetie

I would have died for sure!

[Sadams]

Originally Posted by yess

"i dont usually care about what people think but for me it was sad to think that if i was with a dominican male, some people would automatically assume "sanky panky" i know i cant change people's perceptions...i just wanted to vent a bit more than anything."

I got this big on my recent trips, the looks we got, especially at the airport as I was leaving. Of course it didn't help that he put on a thick fake accent and said loudly, "ah mi gringa come back soon I need the visa!"

gee thanks sweetie

And you should of said loudly, " honey don't forget to pick up your money manana at Western Union 10:00 am"

[yess]

Originally Posted by Sadams

And you should of said loudly, " honey don't forget to pick up your money manana at Western Union 10:00 am"

LOL yes that would have been the answer!!!!! but then I think some of those biddies giving me the evil eye would have fallen off their seats!

bottom line we do look like a sankie with his gringa (although maybe a slightly older version) so all I can do is laugh and shake my head

[Theforceinme]

Hehehe this must be a joke

Why did she even post here? She's a sankette :P

[simpson Homer]

No disrespect if you dont want nothing serius with this guy and you are
taking his presents when you can pay 50% - 50% you are using him.
like him. For taking his gifts, you already said "Gold digger" that's the clean word for Sanky.

You are showing that you are the sanky not him, this is my point

Im sorry but you dont have to be Dominican to be Sanky all you have to do
is act like one.

North America call it "Gold diggers"
Europe call it "Giggolos"
South America and Caribbean "Sanky"

Originally Posted by IslandPrincess

OK OK OK... =
I have zero interest in a "real" relationship right now. I am actually a very attractive mid-twentys american girl. I get so much attention here it makes me ill. I am young, successful and have plenty of guys to choose from (All nationalities including my own with Bucus of money), and believe it or not this one would be my first vote for Mr. right now. But after reading the Billion sankie posts I am starting to wonder if he is indeed a Sankie.

We met at his Job (can't say where to protect his privacy) but nothing in resort or tourism...We had been flirting for a month or two and he asked me for my number, I gave him a business card, and the game was on. He bought me gifts, roses, teddy bears, made me CD's, bought me lunches dinners etc. NEVER asked for Money. He has cooked for me (and paid for the groceries and restocked my fridge). We both speak fluent English and Spanish. We've been having fun & hanging out together quite a bit.


I also told him on our second date that if he wanted to be with me I never pay for anything (period). He stuck around....I am used to being the Gold digger in the relationship here LOL.

My inner voice is saying this: I know this has almost Zero potential to work out, but who cares, he's hot, we're having fun, I'm not in LOVE, and I sure as hell am not giving him a money. This might be justification, but every rich white guy I know has about 10 Dominican Chica's, why can't I keep one hot guy until he asks me for money, and drop him like a bad habit? Especially when he's treating me like a queen & I pay for nothing...

Even still...if this guy is a sankie I do want to let him go, so give me your thoughts....I have mixed emotions on this one.