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08-10-2008, 06:49 PM
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Losing my husband to a DR Woman
I'm losing my husband to a DR woman who has played upon his sympathy, impacted his bank accounts and now claim to be pregnant by him. I'm stunned, shocked and angry to say the least. Looking for suggestions on how can I find out the real story on this woman.
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08-10-2008, 07:08 PM
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Honorificabilitudinitatibus
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Join Date: Apr 2002
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ritagillison3
I'm losing my husband to a DR woman who has played upon his sympathy, impacted his bank accounts and now claim to be pregnant by him. I'm stunned, shocked and angry to say the least. Looking for suggestions on how can I find out the real story on this woman.
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The "real story"?
What do you mean?
You think she is not pregnant?
What is the object of your question?
Save your marriage?
Get revenge?
Satisfy curiosity?
I do sympathize with you, but still need to know what it is that you want.
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08-10-2008, 08:36 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2004
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The real story is no one will know who the father of the child is until he/she is born and a DNA test is performed.
If your husband feels the need to do this, he can obtain a kit from whichever country he is in, take it with him and take a swab of the babys' saliva and send it back to the lab.
That is pretty much the only part of the story that can be proven. Everything else is up for conjecture, whatever else it is you are looking to find out.
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08-10-2008, 11:31 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2004
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I feel for you but will finding out the "real story" change anything for you?
Do yourself a favour and save yourself the headache...try to move on.
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08-11-2008, 12:58 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2007
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If you are still married then you need to find a lawyer and disolve your marriage, because if the DR girl is pregnant then your husband is liable to pay for the child, which could cost you.
Maybe you can save your marriage and maybe you cannot. Have you ever asked your husband why he strayed in the first place?
Perhaps a sex therapist or a marriage counselor is in order.
Try spicing things up a bit, by asking your hubby if you should get a Sankie !
Last edited by mike l; 08-11-2008 at 01:00 AM..
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08-13-2008, 05:26 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2003
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ritagillison3
I'm losing my husband to a DR woman who has played upon his sympathy, impacted his bank accounts and now claim to be pregnant by him. I'm stunned, shocked and angry to say the least. Looking for suggestions on how can I find out the real story on this woman.
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Why would you want any more of the "real" story. Isnt it enough to know that your husband CHEATED on you?
Why are you only looking to see what HER deal is?
I dont understand women that blame or solely concentrate on the other woman and not on their MATE/PARTNER/HUSBAND who was the one that made the vow to be married to you. The woman should be the least of your worries, it is the man you are married to that owes you an explanation.
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08-13-2008, 06:03 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2008
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I feel for you..
You need to prove his infidelity, if he really cheated and you can prove it, there will be no need for any lengthy separation waits...get on with it. Give him what he deserves, don't wait a year to see if you can work it ..out he cheated...I'm not a fan of second chances, you can forgive but you will never forget he cheated.
Divorce Him. Forgive him. Forget him
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08-14-2008, 06:04 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2002
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ritagillison3
I'm losing my husband to a DR woman who has played upon his sympathy, impacted his bank accounts and now claim to be pregnant by him. I'm stunned, shocked and angry to say the least. Looking for suggestions on how can I find out the real story on this woman.
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Maybe you should look in the mirror and ask yourself what did you do or not do to lose him?
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08-14-2008, 07:57 PM
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Bronze
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Join Date: Feb 2007
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sorry to hear that but the dr for many middle age men is a big candy store of young sexy women that will drive a man crazy out of his mind i dicoverd the dr in 1996 i was 36 yrs old trust me if i would have known of this island at a younger age i for sure would have had maybee 10 to 12 kids born from all diffrent young woman or i would have been dead with aids.but to my luck i am very happy with my life with a wonderfull wife and two kids thanks god.this a counntry out for necesity a poor country and young girls always prefer a man not a boy or young man that has nothing to offer them.thank god for the dr.
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08-14-2008, 09:09 PM
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Gold
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Join Date: Aug 2007
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Originally Posted by newyorkcityboy
sorry to hear that but the dr for many middle age men is a big candy store of young sexy women that will drive a man crazy out of his mind i dicoverd the dr in 1996 i was 36 yrs old trust me if i would have known of this island at a younger age i for sure would have had maybee 10 to 12 kids born from all diffrent young woman or i would have been dead with aids.but to my luck i am very happy with my life with a wonderfull wife and two kids thanks god.this a counntry out for necesity a poor country and young girls always prefer a man not a boy or young man that has nothing to offer them.thank god for the dr.
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I think the Dominican girls prefer both, a real man with dollars in the pocket and a boy or a young man to dance bachata.
HAHAHAHA!!!
JJ.
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