Sankies not only go for foreigners

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Originally Posted by RGVgal

That is sad. They should not be giving these tigueres the time of day.
I guess that's the difference..My friends/family members would never consider getting involved with any of these guys.
If you want to date a loser there are plenty in the states already.. no need to bring one from the DR

Exactly RGVgal, it’s hard to understand. These ladies wouldn’t date any of this guys in their own country of residency; waiters, garbage collectors, unemployed, lavaperros etc… but they go down to DR on holidays and… BANG!!!!; these are the type of guys they hook up with… and to make things worse; they marry them and later on they bring them to USA and Canada…
Let me add that many of these ladies are smart, professionals, with good jobs in USA; so it’s puzzling to many of us in this board trying understand this behaviour.
Now, something that I have noticed lately, is the fact that many of these women are entering into these relationships after messy divorces, some of them with 1 or 2 kids of their own.
Do they do it to provide a “Dominican” father figure to these children ? or just as a desperate chance to get some happiness in their lives, as if this is that last opportunity to form a real family. I just don’t know and guess I wouldn’t ever be able to understand.

Saludos
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[rsg]

Originally Posted by contasm

Exactly RGVgal, it’s hard to understand. These ladies wouldn’t date any of this guys in their own country of residency; waiters, garbage collectors, unemployed, lavaperros etc… but they go down to DR on holidays and… BANG!!!!; these are the type of guys they hook up with… and to make things worse; they marry them and later on they bring them to USA and Canada…
Let me add that many of these ladies are smart, professionals, with good jobs in USA; so it’s puzzling to many of us in this board trying understand this behaviour.
Now, something that I have noticed lately, is the fact that many of these women are entering into these relationships after messy divorces, some of them with 1 or 2 kids of their own.
Do they do it to provide a “Dominican” father figure to these children ? or just as a desperate chance to get some happiness in their lives, as if this is that last opportunity to form a real family. I just don’t know and guess I wouldn’t ever be able to understand.

Saludos
Contasm

sure you understand, you just hit the nail on the head.Not all,but a good majority of these women are divorced and have kids.They are low on thier selfesteem and these dominican men know how to build it back up with loads of bull s... Most of these women really just want to have a family and think that these poor dominican men are the answers.I wonder what the percentage of these marriages last after the visa arrives.

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Originally Posted by rsg

sure you understand, you just hit the nail on the head.Not all,but a good majority of these women are divorced and have kids.They are low on thier selfesteem and these dominican men know how to build it back up with loads of bull s... Most of these women really just want to have a family and think that these poor dominican men are the answers.I wonder what the percentage of these marriages last after the visa arrives.

From what I heard from the owner of a website in one of his posts; there was also a Yahoo group which dealt with this type of stories; many guys leave shortly after obtaining the precious work permit, green card or whatever required document is needed to make themselves “permanent” residents in USA or Canada. Many of then have already relatives living there; which make their “escape” hmm sorry; “transition” even much easier.
I have even read, with horror, the story of a lady, who married a Dominican, who later on abandoned her to be able to bring his “dizque” ex-girlfriend tigresa to Nueba Yol !!!!!
It was all planned from the very beginning when the lady set eyes on this tiguere.
What some would do for a visa … hard to believe !!!!

Saludos
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[AnnaC]

I think the topic here is that sankies don't just hit on foreigners so let's stick to that shall we.

[catcherintherye]

Quote:
Originally Posted by RGVgal
That is sad. They should not be giving these tigueres the time of day.
I guess that's the difference..My friends/family members would never consider getting involved with any of these guys.
If you want to date a loser there are plenty in the states already.. no need to bring one from the DR
Exactly RGVgal, it’s hard to understand. These ladies wouldn’t date any of this guys in their own country of residency; waiters, garbage collectors, unemployed, lavaperros etc… but they go down to DR on holidays and… BANG!!!!; these are the type of guys they hook up with… and to make things worse; they marry them and later on they bring them to USA and Canada…
Let me add that many of these ladies are smart, professionals, with good jobs in USA; so it’s puzzling to many of us in this board trying understand this behaviour.
Now, something that I have noticed lately, is the fact that many of these women are entering into these relationships after messy divorces, some of them with 1 or 2 kids of their own.
Do they do it to provide a “Dominican” father figure to these children ? or just as a desperate chance to get some happiness in their lives, as if this is that last opportunity to form a real family. I just don’t know and guess I wouldn’t ever be able to understand.
Saludos
Contasm


You guys kinda' missed the point.

It's always a good idea to read a thread starting with the first post. That way you wouldn't look like some people who have one particular axe to grind, and add the same comments to any thread that looks remotely connected.

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Originally Posted by AnnaC

I think the topic here is that sankies don't just hit on foreigners so let's stick to that shall we.

Anna, please allow me to clarify that all the Sanky “victims” I have been referring to in this thread are Dominican females living in USA. I don’t think I have deviated from the topic

Saludos
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[Thandie]

Well the saddest story I heard was of a DR woman who was a recent widower. She went back to the DR to visit family and mourn and met a guy who became what she thought was her friend. They later married and she brought him to Canada. Poor thing was taken to the cleaners.

The guy (and his family) obviously saw that she was vulnerable and took advantage of the situation.