Sankies not only go for foreigners

[gabryska]

Hello,

As a young dominican woman I would like to share my "experiences" with sankies. I dont know if any other dominicana has exposed her point of view already and Im being repetitive. If it has been like this I apologize.

Im a typical dominican girl from the middle-upper class of the capital, is very normal for me to go to resorts wether is in summer or for christmas, this is whenever my family cant afford to go abroad. Im not a big fan of the hotel scene specially because I dont like how fake and sold are those dominicans who work there.
Anyway it was summer of 2006 me and a Mexican friend went to Puerto Plata, in summer for 5 days, I see the usual sankies (who mostly are the show boys) trying to call the attention of the british women, then at the disco I see them giving striptease just to impress them. I obviously wasnt impressed and neither were them. One of the sankies M saw it didnt work for him to show his butt to this women he went to talk to me and my friend thinking we were foreigners aswell (he approached us in english).
Me and my friend are very nice people who doesnt mind having a conversation with this type of person. And eveytime we found him we would say Hi and talk a little, one day he was driving around the disco with a nice car, and he told us he has this girlfriend in the UK who send him money and he saved enough to buy it, and he was bragging about how cool he is, and how many other women send him money too, but that this one from UK is the one whos gonna take him there so she is his visa and is the one he loves. To what we said ehhh ok good for you. Next day he changed his attitude and became like a stalker! then in certain occation he approached me and offered me to have sex with him in a very desperate manner. I took it as a joke and said very sacastic"dont you see Im dominican you silly! you're not supposed to be a whore with me!" Bu the didnt find it funny and continued bothering me, thanks God that was my last day there.


In 2007 I was in Sosua with my family and some guy approached my mother, saying to her "why such a beautiful woman is alone?" while me and the rest were swiming in the pool. She said to him "The fact you dont respect yourself doesnt mean I dont respect myself young man!"

Fast forward to 2008 Aug, my boyfriend and I took a trip to Bavaro, we went in bus and it left us on the outside the hotel. So we walked about 1 km to get to the reception, anyway while we are walking tired after 4 1/2 hours in a bus, we see this 3 women (1 with a baby) that come to us and hand me some promotion flyers saying is for "massages". I could clearly see this women were prostitutes, but just to make it clearer one said to me "Ask him if he wants massage too" I just said "..aham.." and we kept walking very repulsed.

A few days later I went to have a drink at the bar and my boyfriend went to the washroom, the bartender guy began talking to me in a flirty matter, then I told him right away I have a boyfriend .. when my boyfriend came back the bartender became very hostile with him and tried to bully him, making comments.

This experiences lead me to think that this people are the worse! And should be avoided at ALL costs.

[catcherintherye]

Thank you for a very informative post, Gabryska.

You seem like a nice kid, with a head on her shoulders. I'm glad you took the time to share your experiences. Very nicely done.

[margaret]

Originally Posted by gabryska

took it as a joke and said very sacastic"dont you see Im dominican you silly! you're not supposed to be a whore with me!"

A "whore," you said it! You saw right through him.

Originally Posted by gabryska

In 2007 I was in Sosua with my family and some guy approached my mother, saying to her "why such a beautiful woman is alone?" while me and the rest were swiming in the pool. She said to him "The fact you dont respect yourself doesnt mean I dont respect myself young man!"

Thank goodness you have a great mother! You see gabryska, that's what we mean when we say "the apple doesn't fall far from the tree." Call your Mom, tell her you love her.

[AZB]

The OP's mistake is, she was too friendly. Normally dominican girls from good families don't talk to these guys at all. When she did try to have a conversation with him, be became aggressive. Now the Op knows better not to waste time on these guys.
The other dominican girls are not so nice.
I know a dominican girl in santiago who works for a bank. The bank sent them to a seminar in some resort for the weekend. This girl looks like north american white chick because she is so white. So naturally the sankie confused her for a tourist. He started to hit on her. She didn't respond. then he became more daring and came to her face to says, whats the matter with you, don't you like me?
She looked at him and said "mira maldito mono, dejame en paz..." (look you god damn monkey, leave me alone). Wow, these were some harsh words, needless to say, the sankie ran the other way in shock.
AZB

[contasm]

Originally Posted by AZB

The OP's mistake is, she was too friendly. Normally dominican girls from good families don't talk to these guys at all. When she did try to have a conversation with him, be became aggressive. Now the Op knows better not to waste time on these guys.
The other dominican girls are not so nice.
I know a dominican girl in santiago who works for a bank. The bank sent them to a seminar in some resort for the weekend. This girl looks like north american white chick because she is so white. So naturally the sankie confused her for a tourist. He started to hit on her. She didn't respond. then he became more daring and came to her face to says, whats the matter with you, don't you like me?
She looked at him and said "mira maldito mono, dejame en paz..." (look you god damn monkey, leave me alone). Wow, these were some harsh words, needless to say, the sankie ran the other way in shock.
AZB

I just tried to contact Gabryska over the phone to confirm her story.. It has been disconnected. She has a little ad on the web selling “Improve Upgrade and Practice Your English!” book/tapes.

I decided to do some further research on her story because there is something that just doesn’t click. Somehow I cannot see a well-to-do Dominican girls given the time of day to any of these resort workers. It just does not happens in DR. period.

I believe her story might have been partially made up for her to “Improve Upgrade and Practice Her English”

Please PM me if you require further details pertaining her cyber ad.

Saludos
Contasm

[contasm]

Well, the title of this topic still a valid one, regardless of the dubious veracity of the OP’s experience.
Many Dominican females from USA have been taken by Sankys. Unfortunately, after many years of NA living, they have lost that sixth sense that, when living en la isla, allowed them to smell these bad intentioned tigueres miles away. They lower their guards and allow these individuals to get back into their hearts. See, after many years in USA; they got used to the considerate and polite ways of the gringo man ( @ least many of them), once confronted with the smooth muela of one of these tigueres, the butter starts to melt away. 7 months later, we have a wedding in POP and 2 months after the wedding, the birth of her first offspring, and number 4 for him ( folks, he already had 3 kids from 3 previous relationships)… well, we all know the end..

Saludos
Contasm

[Tallman1818]

Originally Posted by AZB

The OP's mistake is, she was too friendly. Normally dominican girls from good families don't talk to these guys at all. When she did try to have a conversation with him, be became aggressive. Now the Op knows better not to waste time on these guys.
The other dominican girls are not so nice.
I know a dominican girl in santiago who works for a bank. The bank sent them to a seminar in some resort for the weekend. This girl looks like north american white chick because she is so white. So naturally the sankie confused her for a tourist. He started to hit on her. She didn't respond. then he became more daring and came to her face to says, whats the matter with you, don't you like me?
She looked at him and said "mira maldito mono, dejame en paz..." (look you god damn monkey, leave me alone). Wow, these were some harsh words, needless to say, the sankie ran the other way in shock.
AZB

I agree with you Dr. AZB girls from well to do Dominican families in DR don't waste their time talking with resort workers.
This reminds me the last time I went golfing in Guavaberry some upscale Dominican lady confusme with a caddy, it was really funny.......

[RGVgal]

Originally Posted by contasm

Well, the title of this topic still a valid one, regardless of the dubious veracity of the OP’s experience.
Many Dominican females from USA have been taken by Sankys. Unfortunately, after many years of NA living, they have lost that sixth sense that, when living en la isla, allowed them to smell these bad intentioned tigueres miles away. They lower their guards and allow these individuals to get back into their hearts. See, after many years in USA; they got used to the considerate and polite ways of the gringo man ( @ least many of them), once confronted with the smooth muela of one of these tigueres, the butter starts to melt away. 7 months later, we have a wedding in POP and 2 months after the wedding, the birth of her first offspring, and number 4 for him ( folks, he already had 3 kids from 3 previous relationships)… well, we all know the end..

Saludos
Contasm

Really? This has never happened to any of my Dominican friends.

These sankys usually never waste their time with Dominicanas. Any time that they bother me or my friends at resorts, we tell them that we are Dominican and they leave us alone. We only have to tell one sanky and he spreads the news around the resort and we are never bothered again by anyone.

[contasm]

Originally Posted by RGVgal

Really? This has never happened to any of my Dominican friends.

These sankys usually never waste their time with Dominicanas. Any time that they bother me or my friends at resorts, we tell them that we are Dominican and they leave us alone. We only have to tell one sanky and he spreads the news around the resort and we are never bothered again by anyone.

Many smart Dominicanas like you do know what’s going on within the walls of these resorts; BUT.. There are some that have “lost” the “Picardia” of how to protect themselves once one of these tigueres target them.
There is one source in cyberspace, where some of this relationships are well documented. Many will not admit that they were “taken” by a resort worker but you should be able to read between the lines.
Please take a look @ (edited)Dominicans to the USA - Index[/url]
A site full of Dominicanas (living in USA) being taken for a ride by their fellow countrymen.. It is sad RGVgal, but it is true.. Let me just point you out to one thread…

He's gone

This lady was left by her “husband” after sponsoring him for 5 years.. Please RGVgal; read the thread, and you’ll feel really sorry for this nice lady. It does happens to the nicest people


Saludos
Contasm

[RGVgal]

Originally Posted by contasm

Many smart Dominicanas like you do know what’s going on within the walls of these resorts; BUT.. There are some that have “lost” the “Picardia” of how to protect themselves once one of these tigueres target them.
There is one source in cyberspace, where some of this relationships are well documented. Many will not admit that they were “taken” by a resort worker but you should be able to read between the lines.
A site full of Dominicanas (living in USA) being taken for a ride by their fellow countrymen.. It is sad RGVgal, but it is true.. Let me just point you out to one thread…

He's gone



This lady was left by her “husband” after sponsoring him for 5 years.. Please RGVgal; read the thread, and you’ll feel really sorry for this nice lady. It does happens to the nicest people


Saludos
Contasm

That is sad. They should not be giving these tigueres the time of day.
I guess that's the difference..My friends/family members would never consider getting involved with any of these guys.
If you want to date a loser there are plenty in the states already.. no need to bring one from the DR