not all that glitters is gold

Vintage · #1 07-27-2009, 02:26 PM

hi everyone for any-one who doesnt know me im Vintage

i got married to a dominican in the end of 2007 dec 29 to be exact

my husband finally came here in nov of 2008.

i was so exited.

i truly believed i had a one of a kind man.
he treated me like gold.

i truly thought we were in love
wowwwwwwwwwww
god was i stupid.

anyhow i found out that my husband had a girlfriend when i met him in jan of 2007

he had the girlfriend the whole time
he married me in dec 2007 and he still had the girlfriend

he married me i came back to canada in jan 2008 and he still had the girlfriend until he came here in nov 2008

he told me it was only for sex
i want to kill him

then there was another girl , this is the topper
i met a girl in july of 07. she was an interpretour and an english teacher

i paid her 50 a month to teach him english
he was also getting into her panties as well

i paid her and she didnt even give him oneeeeeeeeeeeeee english lesson

he would be at her house when i called and he would profess his love and tell me i never leave his mente

oops pardon me
i only left his mind when he was in her bed

this whole thing makes me sick
i feel like i was extorted with me paying her

oh the girlfriend also had a husband
so thy would steal away in the afternoon for a lil hanky panky

needless to say im on the war path
i have no respect for him
and there is mucho trouble in paradise

beware of these men ,not all but just beware.
i am a smart woman and i was duped beyond belief

i see divorce im done

Vintage · #2 07-27-2009, 02:28 PM

ohhhhhhhhhhhhh
he also called the girlfriend twice that i know of since hes beeen here

twillis · #3 07-27-2009, 02:40 PM

Vintage, I'm sorry. I feel your pain in the words you write. I hope this works out somehow and you feel peace. I know this must be difficult. My x-husband cheated on me, and I know how that feels, so I am sick reading this for you. Sick.

Is he still with you in Canada? Is the girlfriend Canadian or Dominican?

Vintage · #4 07-27-2009, 02:58 PM

ive sent you a private message

Thandie · #5 07-27-2009, 06:58 PM

Vintage,

I skimmed though your old posts and saw that you had your MP assist you with bringing your husband here.
Have you now contacted your MP and notified him/her, that your husband was lying to get to Canada?
I think people are so quick to get their MP involved but need to be just as quick to notify them when they realize their spouse is a scam artist. The MP will be more aware about the high number of wedding scams going on.
Maybe next time the MPs will be more cautious with their 'assistance'.
I dont want these jerks in my country.

drloca · #6 07-27-2009, 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Thandie

Vintage,

I skimmed though your old posts and saw that you had your MP assist you with bringing your husband here.
Have you now contacted your MP and notified him/her, that your husband was lying to get to Canada?
I think people are so quick to get their MP involved but need to be just as quick to notify them when they realize their spouse is a scam artist. The MP will be more aware about the high number of wedding scams going on.
Maybe next time the MPs will be more cautious with their 'assistance'.
I dont want these jerks in my country.

And lets not forget the MAJORITY of the con artists living in Canada that were never sponsored here by a spouse but rather welcomed with open arms by the Canadian government!!!!

SKing · #7 07-27-2009, 08:41 PM

I am sorry that that happened to you Vintage. I know that sometimes love blinds you. The fact that you were paying that girl to teach him and instead she was teaching him makes me livid. At least you found out early (I know not early enough) but it will get better. Just thinking about it makes me want to kick her a$$ for you...
Good Luck
SHALENA

Thandie · #8 07-27-2009, 09:02 PM

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Originally Posted by drloca

And lets not forget the MAJORITY of the con artists living in Canada that were never sponsored here by a spouse but rather welcomed with open arms by the Canadian government!!!!

Actually the 'majority' of con artists are not immigrants BUT natural born Canadians...
my point being lets not add to the existing amount.

drloca · #9 07-27-2009, 09:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Thandie

Actually the 'majority' of con artists are not immigrants BUT natural born Canadians...
my point being lets not add to the existing amount.

Well I dont want to detract from the OP's predicament but lets just agree to disagree....as I have countless real-life examples to share!

canadiangirl858 · #10 07-28-2009, 12:10 AM

Vintage, I know exactly how you feel and what you are going through. The same thing happened to me-I was used by my ex to get to Canada. Its not a good feeling when you realize what they did.
Mp's already know this is a huge issue in Canada yet they are not willing to do anything about it. Very few MP's will back you at this point. I have been fighting this issue of marriage fraud for over 3 years since my ex up and disappeared.
Again I am very sorry this happened to you.
I will send you a private message