another canadian about to marry a dominican

[lisita]

Originally Posted by sangria

Bob, I'm sure it's real and that are lots more of them out there just like Lisita.

I know of at least 2 other women that are in relationships with Dominican men who know and talk to their mans other girlfriends.

These are dominican and non-dominican women fighting with each other over the man and he has all the excuses in the world that he is only with 1 of the women. If woman A is with him, then he has ended things with woman B....then the opposite happens when woman B arrives.

I will never understand how these women can stay with someone they know is cheating and more importantly that every word out of their mouth is a BIG FAT LIE.

What a great foundation to start your married life together............
What great role models for your children..............

It irritates me so much because it gives good honest dominican people a bad name and is embarassing to think that there are so many stupid desperate women out there.

Lisita, Focus on your child and providing a good future for him and a real true love will find you when the time is right.

Thanks for the little bit of defense sangria and yes its true and not a joke bob. I went down there not knowing a thing about these "sankies" to be honest ive never heard of the word until i found this site. i am not with him nor do i plan ever to see him again. after reading all the stories that are posted here, im not that dumb to still continue on.... the more and more i read ...... more and more pieces are coming together... like how they watch you, what they tell you.....and so on. i see this now. wow this guy must have a great sense of smell, its like he could smell "his" potential money off me. i am happy to say tho he has never gotten a penny out of me.

i am not fighting with this other girl over him, we have become somewhat friends, we've shared our stories about him. yes she is down there right now. she claims at first it was to see him and if thats still the case... umm ewww she can have him. i hope shes still not that stupid.

im so glad that all of this came out into the open for me because like i said i was completley blind as to how these men roll down there and would've been married to him at this moment.......i would never EVER want someone like that around my child. urgh!! never!!! im so glad i know what i know now.

[GKLSY]

"...i caught him being unfaithful via facebook"

How do you do this? I have read other comments like this and I'm curious what you di

[Hlywud]

Facebook, posting comments on somebodies "Wall" can be seen by all.

[lisita]

Originally Posted by GKLSY

"...i caught him being unfaithful via facebook"

How do you do this? I have read other comments like this and I'm curious what you di

simple. he made the mistake of putting his status as "my girl is coming soon" and something told me to write something (cause i never have before), so i did. This other womans friend started to ask me questions via his status and thats when things started to fall into place. his other "girl" came on after that and made a comment, and thats when we started to exchange msgs.

..... hahah he got faceBOOKED.

[Hillbilly]

Young lady: I have refrained from commenting because a lot of folks took to this thread since it is so typical of what we continually warn about. I want to tell you that you are so lucky! Thank the Facebook gods...really.

And let me add that you are handling this quite well. Just remember not to spend another dime on any of this. and not a single second of your thoughts or emotions either.

Be well

HB

[lisita]

Originally Posted by Hillbilly

Young lady: I have refrained from commenting because a lot of folks took to this thread since it is so typical of what we continually warn about. I want to tell you that you are so lucky! Thank the Facebook gods...really.

And let me add that you are handling this quite well. Just remember not to spend another dime on any of this. and not a single second of your thoughts or emotions either.

Be well

HB

Thank you HB!! and believe me i thank the facebook gods every minute that passes!!

i am a very strong woman emotionally wise so this happening does not get a man thru to a future with me. dominican or not. period. and besides what's he going to do?? come and get me??....lol

i am still talking with him buuuuuuuuut not for the purpose of being sure of "my soul" mate. but i have read posts about what to say to sankies to see how fast the vanish. its entertainment to me at the moment cause i never knew anything about this. needless to say im one curious girl now to see the outcome.

and ps: my cell is international so it costs me nothing, that's another reason why im doing it. if i had to pay then i would can the curiousity and keep the bank account loaded.

[Hlywud]

You have now received tons of good advice from many respected posters and appear to be on the right track.

No sensense in carrying this on with further discussions, there are many stories in the forums.

Closed!