Emj,
I'm truly sorrry to hear about your denial.
You need to stay positive, as someone who has been where you were....and we are still together and still finishing all of the final step to hopefully finally get our visa (3 1/2 years later) I know how you feel. Although I didn't move to the DR, we still had/have a legit relationship....you shouldn't look at your time spent with him as a waste??? that was your decision to go and move down there how was it a waste of time you were still together ( that is good time together)????
Just be careful now with your next step with this process.....if you go and get married...they will question why no family or friend are there with you. An appeal hearing is also no gtd. they dont really care about your side of the story but the question is with your husband and his feelings.
When I was denied back in 2007. I really didnt know what to do....so I hired a lawyer and appealed. It took about 5 months for the HDR hearing. The officer still didnt believe are relationship (she believed me but not my husband). So after that hearing my next step was to wait for a hearing, which would take 12-24 months to get a date.......thought about it for a month....then i realized it would be faster to reapply, so here I am still waiting.
I think you should maybe see a lawyer or a immigration consultant, for some help...just a thought.
If you have any questions...you can send me a PM
DD
Stay strong!!!
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