i really feel that some have missed my point & let emotions get in the way of reading what i was trying to get across. that is fair & i apologize if anyone took something personally from what i wrote. that was not my intention.
i think "if you are handed lemons, make lemonade" or however that saying goes..this is how i live my life...make the best of the situations you are presented with (good or bad). if i didn't believe this I could never have made it more than 3 years in a long distance relationship.
i anticipate a difficult year ahead of me. i am without my husband, 2 months pregnant & like the rest of you hoping for speedy answers.
i pray to god that i don't have to deal with what castro & marxis are facing but realize this is a possibility. i know i have more patience than the average person & am thankful for that....because god knows we will need it in the year to come.
Knowing the end result will be great whether my husband is here with me or I am there with him it is worth the time and effort.
i can't put myself in your shoes because each person has a different experience & different history. i truly do feel for each of your situations and no matter what anyone says i do understand how much you miss your husbands/wives and know how frustrating it is to not be in control of your own future for the short term.
i will write again once i have something to contribute and can be considered part of the group.
i can't say i wont be controversial because i am a libra

& can see both sides of a situation and will comment from both point of views....it doesn't mean i dont have compassion for peoples feelings and again i apologize if i have offended you in anyway.
I will be back when we are "in progress"
sangria