Sexual Partners!!!

[lalla]

A Really interesting conversation developed in my office between the guys (of course) and they were arguing over whether they would want to know how many people thier partner has been with and vice versa.....

DO you tell your new partner how many?
Does it stay in the past?
Do you want to know how many they have slept with???

Interesting!!!

Oh and i don't mean this weeks "hot number"(or prostitute chris)....i mean someone you are considering a serious relationship with or are IN one....

[arenas809]

no...

it's not important...

besides most people lie anyway...

guys add on to the number when talking to the guys...

subtract when talking to girls..

girls subtract no matter what...

[Musicqueen]

You should NEVER divulge anything like that to your partner!!!

I totally agree with arenas809...he is soooo right!!!

[Jan]

I always tell the truth! If you don't want to know...don't ask. Once a boyfriend asked me that question, I asked if he really wanted to know. When I told him he was sooo upset. We didn't talk for weeks. If you don't want to know the answer to a question all I can say is don't be stupid....don't ask!!!!
But then,what does it really matter? If I'm with you now then I'm with you. I'm not with anyone else but you...who cares about the past. The present and what can be for the future is what I think is the important issue

[mkohn]

Whomever you have been with makes you who you are today!
Punto.
And you should never kiss and tell.
IMHO
mk

[AnnaC]

I agree with all the ladies and arenas809 is absolutely right. Men tend to add (does not apply to criss, he lost count years ago) and ladies subtract.

[Petaka]

Because that leads to comparisons. I'm afraid I could hear things like: "yes, you are okay but that other guy used to scratch my bellybutton from the inside", etc.

On the other hand, one of my girlfriends used to say: you are what you eat that's why you are the only one I call "My Cun#y Dracula". She claimed one night I lost my sense of smell and ate her "steak" very rare.
I always denied it, but I have to admit that in the morning my lips were a little sticky.

[dale7]

I am comfortable in my sexuality and I am no angel myself. So when I have women I have been seeing ask me about my partners, I won't say either way or another. I will tell them what I like and ask them what turns them on as well. Telling about your previous sex partners and techniques usually brings up problems in various ways. I never kiss and tell if possible. I do like to make sure they are sexually healthy though, that is the only thing I really care about, current sexual health, I don't want to get any type of STD. The current woman, Yesenia, I am seeing has asked me but I will never tell her a thing, not that I could give her a number anyways. Some things are better off left in the past and not being known if you are with someone you really care about.
dale7(Howard)

[Dominican Babe]

Two simple rules - never ask and never tell. That way, no-one gets upset.

[Negro Lindo]

We all agree that it's best to stay away from questions like these. You know the person isn't a virgin so you obviously aren't the first, does it really matter how many they have had? No. This will just bring more insecurities into the situation because even if he/she tells you there has only been one other, you are gonna wanna know if you are better than that one and ask more dumb a$$ questions. If we put as much thought into positive things in relationships instead wondering about things like this we might have happier more romantic couples.

Of course people wonder but leave it at that, lie to yourself, don't worry about it, whatever you have to do......
If you are out with your guy/girl, and the see an old friend of the oppposite sex, and smile and greet and such. You wonder if they ever had sex with that person sometimes right? But never, never ask.......never......let by-gones be by-gones and concentrate on what the two of you had together instead of what he/she had with someone else.