drbabe,
I know everyone wants to be a step ahead of immigration and not give them reason to ask for additional documents which delays the process...but you won't know what they might ask for next.
I sent a copy of our marriage cert. as I had only brought one home and the app only asked for a copy. I sent an original birth cert. for my husband as he had extra - he got asked for an original of the marriage cert and a copy of he birth cert.!!!
I would also make sure your application is well organized - all forms and documents are in order (use the checklist). Everyone has there own way for the proof of relationship - my example is that I wrote a table of contents and listed exactly what was being included. And then had all those documents in that exact order. I know Lexi used a file folder with coloured dividers to keep everything organized and easy to find.
As Sangria mentions read - reread and read the application over again. And yes there is one small mention in the guideline for fillng it out that all questions must be answered even if it just with N/A even if it doesn't exactly look there there is a spot for it.
I had starting putting check marks on my document checklist and then noticed the top said to mark with an X - I printed a new form and made X's - I didn't want someone stopping to look at the little things - like this person can't even fill out the form as requested - I wanted them interested in the content of our application.
I know I would be annoyed if I got some haphazzard application and had to spend time sorting it before I could start the processing. And if I was already having a bad day what kind of mindset that might put me in against these 2 people that are nothing more than words on paper. I know that the process should be objective but there has to be some personal subjectivity in these decisions - as we've seen with recent interviews and subsequent denials seemingly before the interview was even set.
When writing the answers or putting in the proof think of someone that does not know either of you and they will decide your fate - what do you think would most likely get them to see the genuineness of your relationship? Every one has different proof as no two relationships are the same - so don't stress if someone says "I sent this" and you don't have that. You can only work with what you have for your relationship and what you think will best represent yourselves. Some people will say it's the quantity of items others will say it's the quality of the items. I think it's what best represents your relationship.
Hope that helps and best of luck!!!!!! You'll be happy you started posting here - this forum has gotten many a person (including myself) through the process with the support of very great and knowledgable people
